why women cry?

Why are you crying, a young boy asked his Mom?

"Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said,
"And you never will, but that's O.K."... ... .

Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?".
"All women cry for no reason," was all his Dad could say... ...

The little boy grew up and became a man,
still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked "God, why do women cry so easily?"

GOD answered... ...

"When I made woman,
I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders
strong enough to carry
the weight of the world, yet,
made her arms gentle enough to give comfort... !

I gave her the inner strength
to endure childbirth
and the rejection
that many times will come
even from her own children.

I gave her a hardness
that allows her
to keep going and take care
of her family and friends,
even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without
complaining... .

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all
circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly... .

She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and
to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears... .

I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults
and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart... .

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but
sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him
unfalteringly... .

For all of this hard work,
I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use
whenever needed and
it is her only weakness... .
When you see her cry,
tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though
she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good.

luv this story..
another one..

Doa perempuan lebih makbul drpd lelaki krn sifat penyayangnya yg lebih kuat drpd lelaki. Ketika ditanya kpd
Rasulullah saw akan hal tersebut, jwb Baginda saw, "Ibu lebih penyayang drpd bapa dan doa org yg penyayang tidak akan sia2".

Apabila seseorg perempuan mengandung janin dlm rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat utknya. Allah swt mencatatkan bgnya setiap hari dgn 1,000 kebajikan dan menghapuskan drnya 1,000 kejahatan.

Apabila seseorg perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah swt mencatatkan bgnya pahala org yg berjihad pd jalan Allah swt

Apabila seseorg perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia dr dosa2 spt keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.

Apabila telah lahir anak lalu disusui, maka bg ibu itu setiap satu tegukan drpd susunya diberi satu kebajikan.

Apabila semalaman ibu tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yg sakit, maka Allah swt memberinya pahala spt memerdekakan 70
hamba dgn ikhlas utk membela agama Allah swt

Barangsiapa yg menggembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama org yg sentiasa menangis krn takutkan Allah swt dan org yg takutkan Allah swt akan diharamkan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.

Barangsiapa membawa hadiah, (barang makanan dr pasar ke rumah lalu diberikan kpd keluarganya, maka pahalanya spt bersedekah). Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan drpd anak lelaki. Maka barangsiapa yg menyukakan anak perempuan seolah2 dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail.

Tiap perempuan yg menolong suaminya dlm urusan agama, maka Allah swt memasukkan dia ke dlm syurga lebih dahulu drpd suaminya (10,000 tahun)

Perempuan apabila sembahyang lima waktu, puasa bulan Ramadhan, memelihara kehormatannya serta taat akan suaminya,masuklah dia dr pintu syurga mana sahaja yg dikehendaki.

Wanita yg solehah (baik) itu lebih baik drpd 1,000 lelaki yg soleh.

Aisyah berkata, "Aku bertanya kpd Rasulullah saw, siapakah yg lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita? Jwb Rasulullah saw, "Suaminya". "Siapa pula berhak terhadap lelaki?" Jwb Rasulullah saw, "Ibunya".

Apabila memanggil akan engkau dua orang ibubapamu, maka jawablah panggilan ibumu dahulu.

Wanita yg taat akan suaminya, semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung di udara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan semua beristighfar bgnya selama mana dia taat kpd suaminya serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya.

Wanita yg taat berkhidmat kpd suaminya akan tertutup pintu2 neraka dan terbuka pintu2 syurga. Masuklah dr mana2
pintu yg dia kehendaki dgn tidak dihisab.

Syurga itu di bawah tapak kaki ibu.

Wanita yg tinggal bersama anak2nya akan tinggal bersama aku (Nabi saw) di dlm syurga.

Barangsiapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan lalu dia bersikap ihsan dlm pergaulan dgn mereka dan mendidik mereka dgn penuh rasa takwa serta bertanggungjawab, maka bgnya syurga.

Drpd Aisyah r.a. "Barangsiapa yg diuji dgn sesuatu drpd anak2 perempuan lalu dia berbuat baik kpd mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya drpd api neraka."

wallahuallam~